THE EFFECT OF CULTURE ON DRESSING
Apostle
Paul gave us an outstanding example of adaptability to culture in preaching the
gospel. When he wrote to the church at Corinth he knew that a culture existed
where women would wear a veil in public. The prostitutes in Corinth used to
move with uncovered heads and this would differentiate them from the virtuous
women. In giving his seemingly controversial instruction to the Church at
Corinth he instructed them to wear veils in public worship and as the
prophesied or preached. "But every
woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoreth her
head…but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be
covered” (1 Corinthians 11:5-6). However, Apostle Paul knew that this
localized command would be misinterpreted by other churches that would read
this letter so he clarified that other churches do not have this custom. “But if any man seem to be contentious, we
have no such CUSTOM, neither the churches of God” (1 Corinthians 11:16).
Apostle Paul knew that groups would arise such as the nuns and would try to
enforce this principle on women who did not have this type of custom in their
countries or cities. That is why he made it very clear that other churches do
not have such a custom; neither did the church of Antioch of which Apostle Paul
was a member.
In certain
cultures certain type of dressing may be unacceptable whereas in others it is
acceptable. That is why it is important not to judge the dressing of people
from another nation because they were raised in another way. Among the Scottish
it is alright for the men to wear skirts and among the Indian women it is
alright for the women to wear trousers. In other parts of the world like
upcountry in Uganda, it would be an offense for a woman to wear trousers. One
time as we were ministering in Rwanda, our taxi was stopped and one of our
fellow Ugandan sisters was called out by the Police. I got to know that she was
called out because she had braided hair and since it was not acceptable among
the Rwandese women they immediately knew that she was a foreigner. Among the
Kenyans I was told that if you are not wearing a tie then you are not a
"man of God". Most times when preaching upcountry we tell the sisters
to wear skirts or cover their trousers with a wrapper (lessu) so as not to
offend the natives. In all circumstances the salvation of a person should be
viewed as a priority rather than trying to maintain your "freedom", "For though I be free from all men,
yet have I made myself servant unto all, THAT I MIGHT GAIN THE MORE. And unto
the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews; to them that are under
the law, as under the law, that I might gain them that are under the law; To
them that are without law, as without law, (being not without law to God, but
under the law to Christ,) that I might gain them that are without law. To the
weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I AM MADE ALL THINGS TO ALL
MEN, THAT I MIGHT BY ALL MEANS SAVE SOME” (1 Corinthians 9:19-22). However
one warning stands in trying to dress in accordance with the cultures, do not
dress indecently simply because the culture of that place allows it to be so.
CROSS DRESSING
“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man,
neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are
abomination unto the LORD thy God” (Deuteronomy
22:5). This is a command specifically outlined in the Old Testament concerning
the dressing of all God's people. This is not specifically forbidden in the New
Testament so it may only serve as a general guideline and not as a law. This
could be a possible reference to homosexuality since homosexual partners
frequently distinguish the "male" and "female" partners by
their dressing. Some believers simply copy the dressing of homosexuals and
assume that it is just another innocent fashion statement. I have personally
seen male homosexuals dressing like women and female homosexuals dressing as
men. God sees homosexuality as a sin so as a Christian you should avoid landing
into it by inviting homosexuals around you through your dressing. “If a man also lie with mankind, as he
lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall
surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them” (Leviticus 20:13).
The Bible warns against men becoming effeminate which means having unsuitable
feminine qualities. “Know ye not that
the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither
fornicators… nor EFFEMINATE, nor abusers of themselves with mankind…shall
inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
Sometimes
when we have gone for mission trips to preach the gospel and most especially in
rural areas, we are sensitive about the way our Christian sisters dress as they
go out to minister. In the rural upcountry areas of Uganda and Kenya we always
instruct the sisters to wear a wrapper (lessu) over their trousers if they
really insist on wearing them. This is done because in the rural setting the
people are not accustomed to women dressing like men in trousers and hence this
would lead them to reject the gospel. Apostle Paul said that, "And unto the Jews I became as a Jew,
that I might gain the Jews; to them that are under the law, as under the law,
that I might gain them that are under the law; To them that are without law, as
without law, (being not without law to God, but under the law to Christ,) that
I might gain them that are without law. To the weak became I as weak, that I
might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means
save some” (1 Corinthians 9:20-22). God would surely hold a sister accountable
if a person in the village refused to give their lives to Christ and went to
hell simply because they saw a female missioner dressed in trousers. In such
situations you have to sacrifice your freedom for the sake of the gospel.
Most times
Christians wear different clothing and accessories without even finding out the
source. The custom of men wearing earrings originated in the days of the
American slave trade where the ears of the slaves were pierced as a sign of
ownership by their master. In the Old Testament times the law stated that if a
servant was to become a property of his master forever then the master would
pierce one of his ears. Surprisingly earrings were worn by both sexes in the
times of the Exodus (Ex 32:2) and it is only of recent that they have been
regarded as a preserve of women. In such a situation it may not be a sin for a
man to wear an earring but it would be better to do without them as a way of
not stumbling others.
Wearing of
trousers in the "balance" fashion where they hang midway the bottoms
is a tradition started in the prisons. When the American gangsters were put
away into the prison the prison authorities would remove their belts from them
in order for them not to use them to commit suicide. The trousers they wore in
the prison had elastic instead of a belt and hence the trousers would hang low.
These gangsters and singers would then maintain the prison tradition outside
bars by wearing their trousers in "balance".
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