SOME COMMON EXCUSES FOR INDECENT DRESSING
Many Christians in a bid to
sideline God’s requirement for modest and decent dressing have come up with a
host of excuses to excuse away their sin. Some of these excuses include:
1. God does not see the outward man but looks at the heart
Many Christian
sisters take 1 Samuel 16:7 out of its context and assume that it was talking
about having a good heart and indecent clothes. God told Prophet Samuel not to
choose David's elder brother as the King of Israel simply because of his size
and strength. This scripture can not be used as an excuse for indecent
dressing. In any case it is out of the heart that lasciviousness (tendency to
incite lust) proceeds and then manifests itself in indecent dressing. "For from within, OUT OF THE HEART OF
MEN, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, ...
LASCIVIOUSNESS... All these evil things come from within, and defile the man”
(Mark 7:21-23) Jesus said that if you have evil treasures in your heart you
will bring out evil dressing, "A
good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is
good; and an evil man out of the EVIL TREASURE OF HIS HEART bringeth forth that
which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh” (Luke
6:45).
2. The men who look at the indecently dressed woman and get
stumbled are at fault and should be looking elsewhere
This is a
very absurd excuse since the lady who is dressed indecently knows that she is
doing a wrong thing and is aware that men are more visually oriented. It is
like dropping a crate of beers into the fridge of someone who has just quit
alcoholism and somehow expecting him to glance at it and throw it out of the
house. That man would certainly look at the beers and would be tempted to drink
them and hence you would have led him into sin indirectly. Bathsheba is also to
blame for having bathed during daytime in a place which she knew could be
visible from the King's balcony. David was wrong to commit adultery with her,
but neither was Bathsheba innocent. When you place a log in the path of runners
and some fall over it, they will surely come and teach you a lesson, you will
not say that they could have seen it and jumped over it in time, "Let us not therefore judge one
another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an
occasion to fall in his brother's way” (Romans 14:13).
3. The man will undress me in his mind even if I dress decently
This kind
of excuse tends to judge all men at the same level of carnality whereas there
are those who are walking in purity. This is like finding a person about to
commit suicide with a knife and instead of taking it, throwing it away and
counseling the person you instead get the knife and help him finish the job by
killing him. When you are discovered by the police you will surely be hanged
for murder regardless of the intentions of the person you killed.
4. It is cool and fashionable, everyone is doing it
The path of
Jesus is not always fashionable or cool. It was not cool for Jesus to carry the
cross up the Golgotha hill and get crucified. You have to get ready to be hated
by the world if you want to please God, "Blessed
are ye, when men shall HATE YOU, and when they shall separate you from their
company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of
man's sake” (Luke 6:22). You should not just do something because everyone
else is doing it, you should not get a panga/machete if you are in a Rwandese
genocide and start killing everyone around simply because everyone around you
is doing it. There is a cross to carry when you serve Jesus and many times it
will mean doing contrary to what the world is doing, "And he that taketh not HIS CROSS, and followeth after me, is not
worthy of me” (Matthew 10:38).
THE NEGATIVE IMPACT OF INDECENT DRESSING
1. It is a sin against God
Many people
take indecent dressing lightly because they think it is just about people. They
are very wrong since God Himself condemns lasciviousness which is the tendency
to incite lust in others, "And
lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall
bewail many which HAVE SINNED already, and have not repented of the uncleanness
and fornication and LASCIVIOUSNESS which they have committed” (2
Corinthians 12:21). Lasciviousness is also defined as a propensity to obscenity
and this is something God considers as part of the works of the flesh and ranks
it at the same level as witchcraft, "Now
the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; ...fornication...
LASCIVIOUSNESS...witchcraft... of the which I tell you before, as I have also
told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the
kingdom of God” (Galatians 5:19-21).
2. It causes God's children to stumble
A person
who goes out of their way to dress indecently is placing a stumblingblock in
the path of those who desire to live a holy life. Sometimes sisters even go
ahead to enter church dressed indecently and instead of the brothers focusing
on worshipping God their mind is elsewhere. Jesus says that it is better to be sentenced
to death by drowning than being caught making God's children to stumble, "But whoso shall OFFEND one of these
little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were
hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea”
(Matthew 18:6).
3. It brings shame and dishonor to the wearer
One time a
famous lady preacher changed her dressing to indecent clothing and in spite of
the fact the ministry kept expanding, some of her staff members went ahead to
resign. This is because she lost the honor she had before them. A male employer
may hire an indecently dressed woman but at the end of the day will not respect
her in spite of all her degrees but will view her as a prostitute and demand
sexual favors from her. There are times I have walked in public with indecently
dressed sisters and daughters in Christ but I would end up becoming ashamed on
their behalf and longing for the time when they would depart from me. If you
can not honor your body by covering it up, do not expect anyone to honor you
for who you are, "Blessed is he
that watcheth, and keepeth his garments, lest he walk naked, and they SEE HIS
SHAME” (Revelation 16:15).
4. It allows demons to oppress a person
Demons of
sexual lust are attracted and make their dwelling in a person who dresses
indecently. Such people tend to complain about demons coming to sleep with them
at night and raping them (Gen 6:1-5). They fail to realize that they are
inviting these demons to torment them through their indecent clothing. Notice
that the man who always went about without clothing was possessed by demons, “And when he went forth to land, there met
him out of the city a certain man, which had devils long time, and wore no
clothes...” (Luke 8:27).
5. It harms the person's health
God warned
the Priests in the Old Testament not to wear anything that would cause them to
sweat, "they shall not gird
themselves with any thing that causeth SWEAT” (Ezekiel 44:18). It is a
scientific fact that women who wear tight trousers commonly suffer with candida
and other fungal infections in their female organs. We see from this that
wearing loose clothing that does not reveal someone’s form is not only decent
but has health benefits. Why should a sister subject her future or current
husband to torture simply because she likes tight clothing, this shows that she
does not really love him.
6. It can lead to early pregnancy or rape
I have
personally encountered sisters who have come close to being raped simply
because of their indecent clothing. When a sister dresses indecently she makes
herself a centre of attraction for unbelievers and immoral brothers. Sister,
when you get multiple phone calls from unbelieving men, check up on your
dressing. The vultures and marabou storks will always gather if you have a
rotting carcass in your back yard, "For
wheresoever the carcass is, there will the eagles be gathered together”
(Matthew 24:28) Throw the corpse out of your compound by dressing decently then
you will avoid early pregnancy. Many sisters who dress indecently tend to get
impregnated by young men who are baby Christians since the sisters tend to
think that when they go out on a date or visit the homes of these baby
Christians or unbelievers they are not noticing their indecent dressing.
7. It prevents unbelievers from getting saved
One time
two young ladies went out to the Sheraton gardens to preach the gospel to the
idlers in that place. They found a man and preached the gospel to him in a very
convincing manner. At the end of the sermon when they asked him if he wanted to
give his life to Christ, he replied, "I would have given my life to Christ
if it were not for this lady who is dressed indecently." God will not hold
you guiltless if you fulfill the devil's mandate of populating hell with indecent
clothing. You should forfeit your liberty and do all you can to make people get
saved through dressing decently.
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